Friend.

I am learning
how to cook for one.

It sounds simple.
It is not.

Every recipe
is made for more.

Every pot
is too big.

I make too much
and stand there
looking at it.

Or I make too little
and the plate
looks lonely.

I cooked for two
for so many years.

Cooking was
one of the ways
I said
I love you.

And now
there is no one
to say it to.

So some nights
I skip it.

And some nights
I set the table anyway.

I am still learning
how to feed
just myself.

It is slow.

But I am trying.

— Hank

P.S. Do you have a friend who is grieving too?
Share this with them.

Something small to keep by the bed,
The Porch: Pieces for a Broken Heart.

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